My Love,
There is a kind of quiet that only winter knows — a hush that settles over the body the way snow settles over fields, softening edges, slowing rhythms, inviting everything into a gentler pace. This is not the quiet of emptiness, but the quiet of rooting — the same way a garden rests beneath the frost, alive beneath the surface even when the world sees only stillness.
You are that garden.
And your bed, warm and rumpled and familiar, is the soft patch of earth where your body longs to root, stretch, unfurl — not with effort, but with tenderness. Winter does not ask you to be flexible or strong or impressive. Winter asks you to ground. To settle. To follow the slow, instinctive movements of a body returning to itself.
This is why bed yoga exists.
Not to accomplish anything, but to let your body feel like home again.
A Garden Beneath the Covers
Think of your bed not as a place of collapse, but as an inner landscape — soil warm with possibility, blankets layered like quiet earth. When you move slowly upon it, when you stretch without leaving its softness, you are inviting your nervous system into a different kind of rooting.
You are teaching your breath to deepen.
You are teaching your muscles to unclench.
You are teaching your heart that stillness is not stagnation — it is sanctuary.
Let this be a ritual. A simple, sensual ceremony of presence.
The Winter Garden Warm-Up: Gathering Yourself In
Before you begin, place your hands over your lower belly — the body’s root, the place where grounding begins. Inhale slowly for four counts. Exhale for six.
Feel the heaviness in your limbs.
Feel the warmth beneath your palms.
Feel the way your body sinks a little more with each breath.
This is the first seed taking root.
Pose One: The Rosebud Curl (A Soft Rebirth)
Lie on your back, knees drawn into your chest, arms wrapped gently around your legs. Not tight, not striving — just held.
Imagine yourself as a rosebud in winter, folded inward, conserving warmth, trusting in the eventual bloom.
On the inhale, feel your lower back expand into the mattress.
On the exhale, let your forehead soften, your jaw loosen, your shoulders melt.
This position tells your nervous system:
You are safe. You are contained. You are allowed to rest.
Stay for 5–7 slow breaths.
Let the body unfurl a little more with each exhale.
Pose Two: The Winter Roots Stretch (Grounding the Spine)
Keep your head on the pillow.
Let your feet rest on the bed, knees bent.
Slowly let both knees fall to the right.
No forcing. No pressing.
Just gravity and surrender.
Place one hand on your belly, the other on your heart.
Breathe deeply, imagining the spine sinking into soft soil beneath you.
Stay for 6 breaths, then gently take your knees to the left.
This is grounding through rotation — the gentle wringing out of holiday tension, the soft release of stored hurry.
This movement whispers to your whole being:
I am rooted. I am here. I am steady beneath the surface.
Pose Three: The Blooming Heart (Opening Without Force)
Lie on your back again.
Let your arms extend out to your sides, palms open.
Let your chest rise softly as if absorbing winter sunlight.
This is not a deep backbend.
This is a heart opening for tired hearts — the kind that doesn’t demand courage, only breath.
Allow the ribcage to rise like a petal softening open.
Allow the breath to widen the spaces between each rib.
Allow warmth to gather across your heart.
Stay for 5 slow breaths.
Let the openness feel like a promise you don’t have to rush toward.
Pose Four: The Garden Gate (Hip Opening for Safety)
Bring the soles of your feet together.
Let your knees fall open to the sides like the wings of a butterfly resting.
Place pillows under your knees if needed — this is not a pose of depth; it is a pose of softness.
Place your hands once more on your belly or womb space.
Breathe into your palms.
Imagine the hips flowering gently, releasing anything heavy they’ve been holding.
Your hips are the body’s gate of grounding.
When they soften, your nervous system follows.
Stay here for 1–2 minutes, or longer if winter calls you to linger.
Pose Five: The Rooted Rose Stretch (A Full-Body Unfurl)
Extend your legs long.
Reach your arms overhead — slowly, tenderly.
Stretch as if waking from deep, nourishing soil.
Point your toes lightly.
Spread your fingers.
Let the entire body lengthen like a rose reaching for the first light of early spring.
Inhale deeply.
Exhale with a sigh — feel the tension leave your bones.
Do this 3 times.
Let your body feel the sweetness of elongation.
Pose Six: The Winter Petal Fold (Releasing the Mind)
Roll onto your side.
Curl slightly, knees toward chest, arms folded gently.
This is your final descent.
A winter cocoon.
A returning to the fetal place where your body knows how to be held without effort.
Close your eyes.
Breathe as if pulling warm earth into your lungs.
Let the mind soften, like snow settling on quiet fields.
Stay here as long as you like — a minute, or many.
Your body will tell you when it’s ready.
Closing Ritual: The Garden of Your Breath
Sit up slowly, wrapped in your blanket if you wish.
Place your hands anywhere that feels like home —
your heart, your belly, your thighs.
Take one slow inhale.
Let the exhale fall out of you like petals.
Whisper, softly:
“I ground myself by returning to my body.”
“I root like a winter garden.”
“I soften into what holds me.”
Feel how those words settle in you.
Feel how they become truth.
This is your winter yoga —
not a practice of stretching the body into shapes,
but a practice of letting the body feel like soil,
like sanctuary,
like a place you can always return to.
You are a garden even in stillness.
You are rooted even when you rest.
You are blooming gently, quietly, truthfully —
and the world will see that bloom soon enough.
For now, stay close to the earth.
For now, stay grounded like a winter rose.
With love,
Lily

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